YOU towards
soul integrity
None of us goes through life without being hurt. There are moments when we can only move on by switching into our survival mode.
In trauma, we find ourselves endlessly repeating a self-compensatory pattern. Or we skilfully avoid something that reminds us of our lost vitality. Often it is a ping-pong between a perplexed “I know better, yet I do it again and again” and avoidance “I’ll never go there again”. Our energy is exhausted in complicated manoeuvres that serve to survive. Feel like living?
We cannot change our history. But we can release the frozen energy in our nervous system, revive the inner connections and go to the place where straw IS gold. It’s always there. We can tap into that – let’s go pearl diving …
trauma
healing
MATURING
To heal our broken trust and re-union the fragmented parts within us is the first step back to a life in soul soul integrity in both – the human community and the world we are part of. It is time to step out of the artificial hold back of your treasure chest of care and creativity.
Who do we want to be as humanity? And what is mine in it to do? It is time to find a way to contribute in a more healthy way to the whole that is not exhausting or exploitive but nourishing for your soul.
Rules of
the game
Trauma release is process work
Trauma work is an essential renegotiation of your inner and outer connections. In the depth of the work we are very vulnerable. The process, that will make the quantum leap onto a new quality in your relationships possible, requires a high commitment and a safe container.
The setting of a Pearl Dive is perfectly adapted to this. Your investment is a conscious decision which will empower you. Your commitment for several consecutive sessions gives your process strength and you can relax into that. Each session has its own essential dedication, which will empower you in your expression and will guide you reliably on your path TOWARDS soul integrity.
Connection
Vulnerability
Purpose Orientation
Global impact
Surrender
Your individual Pearl Dive
Diving deep with joy
Trauma is also described as a loss of connection. Everyone comes into contact with trauma in one way or another in their lives. It does not have to be the big overwhelming events. Any stored energy in your body that cannot complete its cycle affects our quality of life. Thus, minor accidents, but also continuous experiences of “not being seen” as a child can leave a lasting impression on the nervous system, which prevents us from being in fulfilling relationships and standing full and complete in our lives.
Somatic Experiencing® offers us an access to these issues without having to focus on the story. The experience is stored as energy in our nervous system and can be transformed exactly there.
Our nervous system has a logic of its own. With our common sense, we may be able to understand and explain things, but that alone will not lead to the possibility of change. We need to give the fragmented parts a chance to re-connect and re-organise in a new coherence.
Through the language we use in the process, we communicate with the subtle levels of the dream-time. What was yesterday, is addressed and integrated in the cells in the here and now. In the updating of your radius of action and experience, previously irreconcilable polarities stand together in a new connection. In the depth we will come closer to our soul. From there a new form of safety will become accessible to you and you will be able to participate in life with your full love and care.
No matter how difficult the preconditions were, this journey can be joyful and enjoyable. It presents the opportunity to discover your humanity in all its depth and beauty – in the connection with yourself, with the world and with God. We dive for nothing less than light.
There is a variety of settings you can choose from. Best practice is a pearl dive with 5 consecutive sessions within a compact period of 5-10 weeks.
PEARL DIVE
(full circle)
Is this right for me?
“I know what I want. A specific life issue is knocking on my door and can no longer be pushed back. I want to get to know me and am curious and ready to be surprised by myself. I am confidently taking the lead in my life. The temporal focus and my clear yes for the full set of sessions opens up unimagined resources for me.”
A POWERFUL dedication.
Form:
Set of 5 appointments & accompaniment between the sessions
Invest:
1.200€
PEARL DIVE
(light)
Is this right for me?
“I wish for a powerful directional impulse for a specific topic and open myself curiously to the depth of this work. Placing my concerns in the wider context of life enables a gentle nudge in other areas too. The manageable time frame makes it easier for me to integrate the inner work into my everyday life.”
A STRONG dedication.
Form:
Set of 3 appointments & accompaniment between the sessions
Invest:
700€
SINGLE DEEP DIVE
(one-time session)
Is this right for me?
“l’m feeling it. My life needs me. I want to be “on”. The time is right, my willingness for change is ready – now! The depth of my unfulfilled longing and my clear orientation towards discovery awakens unimagined powers. I am ready to embrace change and dive deep through all personal levels into my very essence.”
A DECIDED dedication.
Form:
One deep dive in a
singular session
Invest:
250€
A pearl dive is more than the sum of the individual sessions. Our meetings and the time in between combine to form a deeper process. I hold the space for your intention throughout and am also there for you between our appointments.
I recommend the full circle of 5 consecutive sessions, which includes the full cycle of connection, vulnerability, purpose orientation, global impact and surrender, and which you can go through several times.
If money is an obstacle: ask yourself who in your environment can support you with your request. Involving the people who are close to you can be a very powerful impulse and initiate new movements, far beyond your pearl dive.
If money is no barrier: you are having a precious life-changing experience with your pearl dive. By donating to Integrity For Future, you enable this impulse to reach other people.
next step
When you are ready for your pearl dive, we will first arrange to meet for a 20-minute phone call in which we will clarify your concerns and choose the right format for you. If the chemistry is right, we’ll set all the dates for our trip together. Ready for your deep dive?
Yes, I would like arrange for a CHECK-IN-CALLA Trustable Tribe
A community of pearl divers
The safest ground for us as humans is to become experts – for being human. Understanding, playing, experiencing, discovering. We’re not here to be alone. Life is connection. We need the encounter and the experience of being seen to grow and heal our wounds. In the encounter our vulnerability comes to light. Together we transform straw into gold – and as if by chance the unloved shame becomes a turbo relationship deepener. Then there is also room again for the experience in the here and now. What is happening in the world right now? What occupies us and how do we want to get involved?
A Trustable Tribe is the name of the community of my non-profit initiative Integrity For Future. In regular meetings, live or online, we talk about who we actually want to be as humanity. We combine this big question with an exchange about our deepest personal values and our concrete everyday challenges of living by them – while the world around us is upside down and we make daily compromises that often weigh more heavily on our souls than we realize.
Alone was yesterday. Here you can connect with a worldwide community of pearl divers.
Your pearls
- Being ready for nurturing and fulfilling relationships
- Becoming clear in your souls mission
- Clarification and respect with your family of origin
- Waking up with a feeling of deep meaning in life
- Feeling happy and at home in your body
- Shame as your favoured joker for intimacy
- Orientation and your nervous system fit for a “full life”
- Dedicated caring for the world in your heart projects
- Trust in moments of existential uncertainty
- Enjoyable docking in with your own tribe
BE inspired
FAQ
The work is based on Somatic Experiencing, Essential Bonding & the Access to Dream Time so that your pearl covers the GOLDEN TRIAD the tissue of our human existence is made of – the state of our nervous system, our capability to engage in meaningful relationships and a stable connection to our soul.
Some people find me in a crisis situation, such as separation, tension at work or in the family, chronic pain or a loss of sense. Sometimes it’s just a hunch that life could be even more colourful and joyful. Mostly the encounter feels very guided and the journey has already begun.
When working with Somatic Experiencing it is not so important if you can remember a single event. Your nervous system knows your history. In general the term trauma is a bit overloaded. Trauma is the “loss of connection” and therefore an everyday phenomenon of us all. It is nice when the energy can flow freely again.
Of course, there is a difference between the possibilities of a physical meeting and an online session. However, as I want to reach as many people as possible, I am glad that I have found that we can also work well and deeply in the digital space. This also allows me to travel the world for my initiative and still be there for you.
Our world is out of balance. This also affects the monetary system and the distribution of financial resources. That’s why awareness and pioneering work are needed here. Over the last 10 years, I have experimented a lot with different models in my work. Always in the area of tension between giving everyone access to it and at the same time securing my own existence.
The current prices in connection with my free group offers reflect where I currently stand in this process. I am happy to share my thoughts and experiences with you.
However, after having accomplished your pearl dive (full circle) you can directly add a second or third round which comes to a price of 900€ for the new series.
Physical touch is not necessarily part of a session, but it can support the energy flow at certain points. Your openness to it is constitutive and your preference will always be accepted.